Separation Anxiety Disorder in Children & Implications for Schooling

Author: Michael Valuta, UF Undergraduate student

Published: September 2024

Understanding Separation Anxiety Disorder in Children

Separation Anxiety Disorder (SAD) is a common but serious condition that can significantly impact a child’s emotional well-being and daily life. While mild

separation anxiety is a normal part of childhood development, especially

between 18 months and three years of age, SAD is a more intense and

persistent form of anxiety that goes beyond what is typical for a child’s age.

What is Separation Anxiety Disorder?

SAD is characterized by excessive fear or anxiety about being separated from

a parent or caregiver. Children with SAD may experience overwhelming worry

that something bad will happen to them or their loved ones when they are

apart. This anxiety can manifest in various ways, including nightmares,

physical symptoms like stomachaches, and an intense fear of being alone.

For a diagnosis of SAD, these symptoms must be present for at least four

weeks and must be severe enough to interfere with the child’s daily activities.

The Connection Between SAD and School Refusal

One of the most challenging aspects of SAD for parents and educators is its

impact on school attendance. Children with SAD often refuse to go to school

because they fear being away from their parents or their home. This refusal

can stem from worries about what might happen to them or their loved ones

while they are apart. School refusal can lead to academic problems and

social isolation, further complicating the child’s anxiety and overall

development.

When a child refuses to go to school due to SAD, it is not a simple case of

disobedience. Rather, it is a symptom of their intense anxiety. These children

may exhibit physical symptoms, such as headaches or stomachaches, on

school mornings, or they may have meltdowns at the prospect of leaving

their parents. In some cases, the child may even experience panic attacks

when faced with the idea of going to school.

Causes and Risk Factors

The causes of SAD are believed to be a combination of biological and

environmental factors. Some children may inherit a predisposition to anxiety,

while others may develop SAD after a traumatic event, such as the loss of a

loved one or a significant life change. Children who have parents with anxiety

disorders are also at a higher risk of developing SAD.

Treatment and Support

Effective treatment for SAD often involves a combination of cognitive-

behavioral therapy (CBT) and, in some cases, medication. CBT helps children

learn to manage their anxiety by gradually facing their fears in a controlled

and supportive environment. Family therapy is also crucial, as parents play a

significant role in their child's recovery. Involving the school in the treatment

plan can help ensure that the child receives the necessary support to

manage their anxiety and attend school regularly.

Conclusion

SAD is a serious but treatable condition. Early intervention is key to helping

children manage their anxiety and lead healthy, fulfilling lives. If you suspect

your child may be struggling with SAD, the FLOAAT Center can provide an

accurate diagnosis and appropriate treatment.

References:

https://www.cedars-sinai.org/health-library/diseases-and-conditions---

pediatrics/s/separation-anxiety-disorder-in-

children.html#:~:text=Separation%20anxiety%20is%20normal%20in,to%20

be%20diagnosed%20as%20SAD

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